If You’re Not At The Table, You’re On The Menu

You’ve likely heard the rule: “Never fail to show up.” Those who live by this principle master the art of success.

Having visited 92 Rotaract Clubs and interacted with both leaders and members, it’s clear to me that our leadership journeys often fall into two categories: “The Influencers” and “The Consumables.” The question is, which one are you?

Are You an Influencer in Your Club?

Ask yourself:

How much influence do I currently have in my club?

When was the last time my idea shaped the club’s culture or activities?

These are the foundational questions of leadership. Joining Rotaract means embracing opportunities to grow, learn, and lead. Leadership isn’t just for those in formal positions—it’s about stepping up, contributing, and making an impact regardless of your title.

At the Table or On the Menu?

To shape decisions in your club, you must be present at the table where decisions are made. If you choose to stay absent, you risk having your interests overlooked or decided by others. Think of it like this: if you’re not part of the discussion, you become part of the agenda—on the menu, not at the table.

Be the Lion When It Counts

I get it—you might not be the “lion” of your Rotaract Club right now, and that’s okay. But when necessary, act like one. Dress in confidence, speak with purpose, and command respect. Show up as someone who contributes meaningfully. Otherwise, you risk being seen as the zebra among lions—an easy target.

The truth is, if you’re not stepping up to have your voice heard, you’re not fulfilling your role as a member. Do you recognize a need? Be part of the solution. The way to do that is to find your seat at the table.

The Time to Act is Now

The good news? You still have six months to make your mark. The bad news? Many of us are still too comfortable being on the menu—waiting, watching, and letting others decide our fate.

Don’t wait. Step up, speak out, and secure your place where it matters. After all, the table is where the real work happens—and you belong there. You can start by registering and paying up for the 100th DISCON in Jinja where we take some important decisions that impact our next Rotary Year as well as donating to The Rotary Foundation so that you use your resources to contribute to the impact we all desire.

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